There's been a lot of "nations" who have "disappeared" when they have been conquered. And I don't think the conquerors have given a damn about the conquered people or considered them as their brothers...
It would be like:
Prussia: Hey, Lithuania and Latvia! I think I killed your brother! But now we can be brothers, right?
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It would be like:
Prussia: Hey, Lithuania and Latvia! I think I killed your brother! But now we can be brothers, right?