This is a good place to start, then! I'm grateful for your concern, but I've made my debut over a century ago. Besides! Marriage as a diplomatic gesture is old-fashioned and I'm doing perfectly fine without weddings! Be reasonable--[Cuts off with a flat annoyed look. You drive her nuts, if you weren't an elder who was worthy of her respect...]

Something to do. [Too Innocent. Doesn't even occur to her what you might possibly be implying, she's taking that as you accusing her of lazing around]

I wouldn't exactly describe myself as in need of things to do. [Unlike you, for example. Makes a mental note to pass on some more work on your boss to keep you occupied and out of her personal affairs.]