One doesn't even have to be a raging asshole to get under my skin. I used to follow this person who would cry oppression when she spent most of her salary on con tickets and merchandise and couldn't afford rent, and then she tried to guilt her followers into giving her donations because she had mental problems and buying all that anime crap was the only good thing in her life, so it was unfair to expect her to put money aside for rent, bills and food.