[They've made a lot of progress with the understanding that he is not the same violent, sneering nutcase anymore...if she finds out he's been reliving the past with that kid she's going to ban him from coming near her until he relearns modern civility]

Don't exaggerate. I mentioned it perhaps...twice. How can you be sure of anything with the state you were in, besides?

[She might be flattered if he'd defended her honour for real, but he's undoubtedly making it up and just got into an unrelated scrap]

You really ought to. Think of your obligations! We must get along productively in this day and age.