I wish. At least I could better deal with someone who rants and raves openly, but my friend has this habit that whenever the topic turns to football and that I like Germany, she'll go "oh, by the way, did I tell you about that time when this German magazine wrote really horrible and racist things about Italians when we played against them?", or she'll dig up links to bad behaviour by German fans during a game or something. I have no idea what she's trying to achieve, but I feel like she's trying to make me feel it's problematic to support Germany and that I should feel guilty.