Well, perhaps you can tell them that yourself.

[..."Obviously", of course.]


But he is usually not really trying to cuddle at all and even if he hugs me,
he is too rough and forceful and I...

Huh, why him? [stops pouting and thinks about it]
...I can't even remember him ever trying to hug me or to cuddle with me,
so why should he be involved with this?

[Maybe she's right?
Maybe she needs to teach a hugging for beginners-course for poor, einsame Germantoffeln?]